After thinking about it a while, I realized that the answer may be yes. There is a definitive "payback" to families when they go watch Johnny play baseball. In other words, there is a shared family experience that is beneficial to all.
Ask yourself this question: "How often do families come together at your church?" In our culture, when a new family walks into church their first thought usually is, “Where do my kids go?”
Here is a list of observations I have made about families and churches today.
- Families are busier than ever before
- Because life is so busy parents value family time
- People do not see church time as family time
Here are some things that I have done to bring families together at church.
- Family Service – A couple times a year do a family service on Sunday morning. Ask the youth band to lead worship, do some drama skits, short films and object lessons. Make sure that the stuff you do is not too kiddy. It needs to appeal to all generations. If your senior pastor agrees to let you do this make sure it’s really good. Practice, practice, practice!
- Family Vacation Bible Adventure – We moved our summer VBA from the morning to the evening and we made it a requirement that parents attend with their kids. VBA is rated "F" for Family - which means it is NOT a drop off event. It was a blessing to see that our attendance numbers stayed the same (around 1,000 people). Yes, we lost some kids, but we gained some parents.
- We created a Friday night show for families called Eddie’s Shake Shop. Eddie’s Shake Shop was a thirty-minute theatrical production followed by a 10-minute sermon and an altar call. Families loved it! It also brought in a lot of visitors to our church. Some nights we would have 60–70 visitors.
Church is a great place for families to serve together! And if Little League can bring people together for a positive family experience, then the church should be able to do that as well...and more.
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