The common mistake most people make is thinking that reputation is a matter of "image." So they worry themselves with questions like, "How do I look?" or "Did I say the right thing?"
To build a long-term good reputation, you must focus on your character, not your image. Respect must be earned. The book of Proverbs in the Bible identifies six character qualities found in people who are respected by others:
1. RESPECT IS EARNED THROUGH INTEGRITY
"Respected people do not tell lies" (17:7). "The man of integrity walks securely, but he who takes crooked paths will be found out" (10:9).
2. RESPECT IS EARNED THROUGH HUMILITY
"Arrogance will bring your downfall, but if you are humble, you will be respected" (29:23). "Anyone who listens to correction is respected" (13:18).
3. RESPECT IS EARNED THROUGH DEPENDABILITY
"Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of gifts he does not give" (25:15). "He who keeps an oath even when it hurts will never be shaken" (Ps. 15:4-5).
4. RESPECT IS EARNED THROUGH HAVING PRIORITIES
"If your goals are good, you will be respected" (11:27). "You will earn the trust and respect of others if you work for good" (14:22).
5. RESPECT IS EARNED THROUGH GENEROSITY
"He who gives generously to the needy and shows kindness will be powerful and respected" (Ps. 112:9).
6. RESPECT IS EARNED THROUGH PUTTING GOD FIRST IN YOUR LIFE
"If you want favor with both God and man, and a reputation for good judgment and common sense, then trust the Lord completely. In everything you do, put God first, and he will direct you and crown your efforts with success" (3:4-6).
What are people going to remember most about you? How many of these qualities could you work on this week - starting today?
by Rick Warren. More information available at www.pastors.com.
Rick Warren is the founding pastor of Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, California. Beginning with just his wife, Kay, in 1980, the congregation now averages 22,000 attendees at its 5 weekend services. 
