“They have proved to be a comfort to me” (Col. 4:11 NKJ).
In Colossians 4:10-11 Paul names three dear Christian friends who were a comfort to him: Aristarchus, Mark and Justus. The Greek word translated comfort in this passage is paregoria (par-ay-gor-ee’-ah).
It is from this word that we get our English word paregoric which is a medicine that soothes and settles. Rubbed on the gums of teething infants, it immediately brings soothing relief to irritated tissues.
Paul, in a Roman prison, is chafing. He is irritated. The prison has no air-conditioning, no creature comforts, and no room service. Paul is suffering most of all from the inconvenience, the delays the wasted time spent chained up to a Roman guard. In His mercy and grace, the Lord sends three men to act as a “paregoric” to Paul. They soothe him. They calm him down and refresh him in spirit.
You can either be an irritant or a balm. You can hurt or you can heal. You can be part of the problem or part of the solution.
It is interesting to note that Job had three “consolers.” He ended up calling them miserable comforters (Job 16:2) because they added to his grief instead of relieving it. Here Paul lists three consolers who were true comforters.
Only by being indwelt by the Divine Comforter, the Holy Spirit, can we bring needed comfort to others.
“Blessed be the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our adverse circumstances, so we can comfort others in their adversity with the same comfort with which we have been comforted” (2 Cor. 1:3-4).
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